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Shopping Seduction

“Give your partners wardrobe a little pick me up while having a romantic fun time together”


If you have been together with your partner for a while, you‘ve seen every item in their closet MANY times, and its debatable whether you love their personal style, or simply accept it as their choice.

Wouldn’t it be great if there were a fun way to dress your lover in an outfit that’s just for you, from top to bottom and every little spot in between? It sounds like you are ready for a little shopping adventure together … and don’t worry, you won’t hear any moans and complaints this time!

Find a comfortable spot, grab your tablet, and snuggle up with your partner … Shopping Seduction is a romantic online adventure, and remember, after you pick out their outfit, they get to pick out one for you!

Shopping Online for Style that Sizzles!

We want to make this little fantasy fashion trip a fun stress free adventure filled with laughs and romance, so we are avoiding the malls and trudging from store to store, instead letting the magical world of infinite selection open itself to us on our screens.

To get started, make sure you are in a comfy place (your bedroom is always the best), have a fabric tape measure handy, dim the lights, and fill your room with candle light.

Once the stage is set for the evening, cuddle up together and plan a special date where you want to go to show off your flashy new duds. Keep in mind when you are shopping that your outfit is for this date, and every piece of your ensemble should reflect your plans. You won’t be comfortable dressed in regalia fit for a Michelin Star restaurant if your date plans are strolling through the zoo.

As you open up your favourite shopping app and your fashion journey begins, it’s easy to become distracted by the selection and suggestions but remember, the outfit you are choosing is for your special date so the style of each piece should coordinate together completing a harmonious look.

It’s Not the Size That Matters … Oh wait, it is!

Your romantic and playful shopping adventure needs to start out on the right foot with all your correct measurements to ensure that the clothes you are buying are going to look every bit as good on your partner as they do on those Amazon models.

Grab your tape and start to measure your love, following the sizing chart above to make sure you have all the correct current measurements of your partner so that you can purchase an entire outfit from the top of their head to the soles of their feet.

Take your time and lovingly caress your lover as your tape measure intimately follows their profile, and record each measurement in your Love Journal with the date and time listed, as well as any little special notes to remember for next time. After your first night of Shopping Seduction, you are going to want to make this a regular event and oomph up your wardrobes together for each new season..

You are shopping at home with the intention of being fun and flirty together, so suggest to your partner that during the serious task of measuring you must be wearing only the skimpiest of attire to ensure accurate measurements. (wink)

Don’t be afraid to get a little intimate during your measurements, and set the stage because remember … they are measuring YOU next!

Let the Adventure Begin!

Now that you have all of your measuring homework done, its time to shop shop shop!

Let’s remember, we are going for a complete outfit that YOU want to see your partner in, so this is the time to push some fashion boundaries and have fun! This is not about a style that your lover is used to, is comfortable with, or wears on a daily basis … the idea is to break free of the everyday, and dress up in something that has them staring at themselves in the mirror saying .. “Wow, Look at Me”!!

Start at the feet and work your way up, making sure that you choose every garment and accessory that is going to make a complete unforgettable look worthy of a fashion runway.

This is a fashion adventure so we aren’t talking about a new shirt and pair of jeans … this is everything from shoes, socks, undergarments, vests, jacket, belt, watch, jewelry, scarf, and hat, to a spritz of a special scent, nothing is off the table and go as crazy and complete as you want.

This is the chance to explore new styles with your partner as you encourage each other into new colours, fabrics, cuts, and fits that are all going to come together into a romantic and thrilling menagerie guaranteed to make an unforgettable and exciting date for you both.

Show Me Yours … I’ll Show you Mine

You’ve ordered all your items, and now is the beginning of delayed gratification, as over the next few days your clothing and accessories trickle through your front door.

Set aside a special place in your room with a “his” and “hers” section, in a little pile of boxes and packages, keeping track of what has been delivered and what is yet to come … and don’t open anything until both wardrobe selections are complete.

When everything has arrived, its time for another special evening, the anticipation is building, and you are both looking forward to another special evening to write about in your “Love Journal” … its time for the Fashion Show!!!!

Now, was that the most fun you’ve ever had shopping together? The best part is, each season you need a fresh little wardrobe update, so start thinking about what look you would like your partner to try out for the upcoming season … knowing they are fantasizing the same thoughts about you!


Romantic Reflections is a collection of thoughts and musings intended to add little touches of love and romance to our relationships creating a fairytale that will last forever.